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You feel that your man really loves and cares for you, but for some reason he does not seem to like he wants to commit. You may not be able to deduct any reason why he will not commit, but there is a reason. And the reason is not because of you; it is his fear of commitment. However, there are some simple things that you can do to make a man commit to you.
Men are raised differently than women. Most girls are raised with dreams of a storybook romance and a fairytale wedding. On the contrary, men are raised with completely different life ambitions and relationship expectations. You need to tell him what you expect from your relationship without making demands.
During your conversations with him, do not make him feel like you are trying to get into every detail of his personal life. Allow him the opportunity to open up to you. When he does, try not to pry into them and just allow him to tell you about. If you try too hard to get those small details, he may just shut down. Do not think of him keeping things from you as him keeping secrets, he is just not ready to open up yet.
As he becomes more comfortable, he should grow to be more open with you. In the same token, be open and honest with him about yourself. Let him know how you feel about topics without trying to sugarcoat them or hide details. If he tells you about something that you are not familiar with, do not pretend that you know what it is. Instead, find polite ways to ask for further emphasis without giving the impression that you are prying. When possible, avoid giving unwarranted advice and criticism. Understanding this creates a foundation in how to make a man commit to you.
Do not allow yourself to be easily insulted when you are with your man. Men and women have different views on many topics and if he says or does something that offends you, do not overreact. Tell him in a subtle way that what he said or did was offensive and do not punish him for it.
Men also do not want to feel like things are being taken away from them. Try to make compromises when it comes to his things and his freedom. There should be nothing wrong with him hanging out with his friends on occasion. However, the amount of time he does need will to be negotiated between the two of you with clear ground rules. When done properly, this not only makes him content, but it also shows his friends that you have not taken control of his life.
Do not let him spend a lot of money on you. Even when he insists that he buy you something very expensive, politely turn it away. He may want to give things to you, but accepting an expensive gift right away or constantly allowing him to spend money on you may give him the impression that you are more interested in his assets than him.
Trying to make a man commit to you can see like an enormous undertaking, but there are things that you can do to increase your chances of success. The most important thing that you should realize is that every relationship requires work and dedication from both people and you have to be willing to compromise. Men and women operate differently, but adapting to him will make him desire you more.